“When we’re hanging out, they always talk about other gay people. If I let them know that I’m gay, it’s the same as letting all gays in the city know about me.”
"Remember, I would rather not see you as a daughter, if I ever caught you dating a woman," my mom said.
Jangan salahkan pria-pria gay yang menutupi homoseksualitas mereka dan menikahi perempuan heteroseksual. Seringkali pilihannya adalah antara menikah dan dibuang keluarga, atau menghadapi kekerasan fisik dan psikologis, menurut penulis ini.
Many homophobic men say they are disgusted by gay men who sexually harass straight men, but do they feel the same way about women being harassed by straight men?